Wednesday 10 August 2016

Just movie lessons...

Last week was pretty interesting, lots had to do with "love" itself even movies were romantic! 

I ain't a fan of romantic cheesy movies that women watch for fun, but the ones I watched were rather good. Life lessons were heard and learned. 

The first movie I want to talk about is a French romantic comedy, "Amour et turbulences" or " Love is in the air". The plot of the story is simple but quite unexpected. Two young people are sitting next to each other on a plane back to Paris. They have quite a love story to tell to the passengers next to them. Even though you could say they hate each other at the beginning, you'll see that during the story it ain't true at all. 
When two people are meant for each other, they come back to one another, somehow they manage to see each other again. It could take weeks, months, years for two people to realize their mistakes and reunite again. If you want a relationship to work, you both have to sacrifice a piece of you. For example, in the movie, the guy, Antoine (in the movie), was the number one player, the one that got tired of people after two weeks. Bad reputation and worse lover. Yet, he changed, but when you see other women looking, eating him up from a distance, you tend to get jealous and the trust you may have had once, well let's just say you can say goodbye to it. He had to let go of other women to be with the one he truly loved. The other thing I learned was the communication that wasn't done in their stories. Instead, of running away, try and listen to one another, we all interpret what we say, and sometimes our interpretation is the wrong one. Listen carefully, try to understand the meaning behind what they are saying, and I promise the relationship will go a lot smoother. All it may take is a real conversation where both of you explain what they are feeling, what's bothering them... 

Next one the list of comedies is the movie, Failure to Launch, with Matthew McConaughey and Sarah Jessica Parker. It's the story of a man in his 30's who still lives with his parents, when they get tired of him staying over, they decide to hire a professional woman to make him move out of the house. 
Each person is different, each person has a story, has reasons to do certain things. For instance, the man in the movie didn't seem to want to move out because it was easier to live with his parents. But there is always some reason behind that! There again, communication would have cost cheaper than hiring someone to try and make him move out. The next lesson that doesn't help me at all at the moment is the fact that you might end up falling in love with a client of yours, it happens, it might happen to you if you have clients, ones you spend time with quite a lot. I know people who have "rules", I know I kind of do, tend to break a few of their own rules because love doesn't technically follow any protocol. 

The last movie I want to talk about is Tarzan with Alexander Skarsgard and Margot Robbie... I can't explain how much I love the actor, I always thought he was hot, it was confirmed with the movie... I don't need to give much information the plot of the movie, I'm sure plenty of you have seen it and enjoyed it. I thought they did an amazing job on putting together all the scenes and they got my emotions wrapped up rather quickly! 
They capture the love that John or Tarzan had for Jane and vice versa. They portrayed that love can make you do impossible things. The actors were so into their characters that it really showed how much love can conquer a lot more than a relationship. Love does make you do the unthinkable. If your love is strong and deep, both people won't give up and will do whatever it takes to get that love back if something was to happen. Love gives you wings to fly, it gives you such an energy that you have to let it out. You have to show the love you have to the other person! True love does exist! It might be in movies or books, but at the end of the day, where did they get the idea of such a deep, powerful love? It happens! 
Just look around! 

" The couples that are meant to be, are the ones who go through everything that is meant to tear them apart, and come out even stronger."

~Bella

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