Love, the story, so much more...

How much can we do for love?
How far can we go for love?
What will we do for love?

When we talk about love, we automatically think about the rushing feeling, the butterflies in our stomachs, the idea of the perfect match, the perfect pair. We all know that love can make us blind, can make us believe in something unreal, half the time impossible. Love is a strong feeling, powerful enough to control our feelings, emotions, behaviors, actions!

I look back at my past relationships, the ones I hear about from friends or relatives and see that they always have one thing in common! We are controlled by the powerful sense of love. The idea that we can't be fulfilled without our other half. The idea that we are nothing without it. We even create a fake romance, a fake interest so we can please our desires.
Ask a friend who is in a serious relationship where that one may be talking about their partner every time, how far will they go for them? What would they do for them?
You will be surprised about the answers!
What I hear most the time, or what I said multiple times before is " I would do everything for them, take a bullet to save their lives. Hide a body to protect them, or even kill to revenge them if it came to this." These words are overly used. How many of us will be capable of such a thing? How many of us say it to prove a point? To make them realize that we do love them without any boundaries?
Are we serious?

Love is a controlling factor of plenty of our actions! 

Should we keep our love, what we feel inside so we don't have to go through this tough moment? Sadly, we don't keep it all inside, there is always a sweet word or a slight sweet action! 

A couple of days ago, I was talking to an old teacher of mine at my work. After telling him a little story about me leaving a note and my number to someone... Feel embarrassed about it! 
He told me I was a hopeless romantic. Is that a quality or annoying effort on my part? Bad new if you ask me!

A hopeless romantic, I can tell you that no matter how hard we try to hide our feelings, our deepest desires, there will always be something slipping through our hands! It's like when you are interested in someone, your feelings go overboard! You always try to see that person, always try to catch him! It's becoming a slight addiction. Rather annoying if you ask me! You get caught in feelings, into thoughts... Into a "dream", a vivid awake dream. You are dreaming with your eyes wide open. 

A hopeless romantic isn't addicted to one person but to the feeling, love itself. Each time a hopeless romantic go out in public, a part of us react, think that today is the day they will meet the person they will end up marrying. Sounds hopeless, but they aren't in control, I would know!
Somehow deep down a hopeless romantic know, it's not the day, but the hope is there!
Kissing is the 1st thing on the list, followed by cuddles and sex. When they are single, the first two are the ones that they miss the most. I personally miss the cuddles most of them all...

Hopeless romantics never stop loving the exes. No, don't think it's because they want to be back with them or because they have forgotten why the relationship didn't work out. It's simply because they don't want to let go of the feeling, the warmth, the sweet words or phrases, the little surprises, the love that the person gave the hopeless romantic! They miss these moments but don't worry, we don't hold on to these feelings forever if you are able to love us without boundaries, we will let go of these feelings, we will move on!


The hard part, sadly, the one I struggle with the most, deal with it almost every day is that my brain thinks a certain way while my heart another. Many of us struggle with this issue, most of us don't know what to do to stop it, so we listen to one instead of the other. A hopeless romantic like me will always listen to their heart. Somehow our heart doesn't care about what our brain might be thinking! Never does! 


So when we realize that we are controlled by "love" itself, our heart, and our brain aren't much in control anymore, we also realize how far we will go for the person we love! 

Love what a story, there will always be something to talk about! 

"When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one's self, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what the world calls a romance." - Oscar Wilde

~Bella