More questions that got asked...

I thought it was time to respond to a few other questions that people have asked me before.
Never believed people would actually ask many questions, where do you get the answers, though?
I mean, I understand how you can ask questions, got plenty of them myself, but when it comes to answers, it becomes the tricky part... Very tough part!

Here are the questions and the answers...

What is the oddest thing you do or did?

Long answer! I hate odd numbers except 5, that one is fine, but somehow, I take number 3 in consideration. For example, if I really enjoy a novel from a writer, I have to buy at least three novels from the person. I need at least three cups of coffee a day, or more, but three is the least I'll go! Don't know exactly when I realized how odd and absurd it sounded, but I started looking at patterns. It became common to my knowledge that I was indeed getting along with the number three. Then I went back to my past, childhood, I was always with my mother and brother, so three of us. I had three best friends, not just one, and at night before bedtime, I would have to listen to the same song three times before closing my eyes. Three different bedsheets, three type of tea that I absolutely love, and other little things like that. I don't know if you have to have a certain number of certain things, but it seems like I do. Funny thing is that it doesn't happen with everything, good news for me or else I'll have three pairs of the same jacket but in three different colors. Lunatic much considering I don't have a preference with any number.  I have to say it's odd enough for me so it can be odd enough for everyone.


How come you help everyone but don't let anyone help you?

Umm, I think I've answered this question before... It's easier to help others, it makes me happy to see that I was able to help, give advice and succeeded in making someone smile. It proves I can do something nice for others instead of being brutally honest. Giving my compassion, leave in the middle of a movie to cheer a friend up, or just send a little short text message is all that may take for someone to feel better, happier. I, personally, don't like to have people feel alone in a time of crisis, it's quite horrible! 

Why do you cry so much in movies?

How many of you cry in movies? Come on... Many of us cry, I ain't the only one. It proves I care about people's emotions! It shows that I do get compassionate. Crying is part of life when something sad comes on, feelings rush in, you can't control it all the time. Like in Harry Potter, I mean it's not that sad and it's action like than a drama, it's fiction, yet I managed to cry in multiple scenes. Do I regret it, no, will I cry again, yes. I'm a human being, I let it run down my face sometimes, it's not a crime.    

Where would you love to live in the future? 

I've always loved Italy, it's in my blood, but when you talk about Italy it feels like "home" more than my birth country ever felt. Italy would be my first choice, but then again I still have Ireland in my heart as well. My Celtic blood comes around once a while and reminds me that Ireland would be the best place ever for a writer, for a lover of rain and cliffs. On one side, you've got the Italian food, the wine, the hand gestures, the history, the art, the movies, the romance... On the other side, the cliffs, the sea, the green grass, the beer, another history, the unexpected traditions, the rain and wind, the laughter, the little houses... If I could, I would live half of the time in both countries. Can't always decide these such amazing decisions. Ireland, Italy... Love and mysteries! I just love both countries mostly because I've got that home feeling attached to them both, and to add up to the fairytale, I can see myself in a little house, looking out the window, watching, and writing novels. 

Have you always wanted to be a writer?

Funny thing is I never thought I would be writing a novel in a million years. Back in second grade, the teacher asked us to draw a picture of our future job. As you may imagine, each child had firemen or police officers draw on their pieces of papers, while others had teachers, doctors... Except me. I drew a tall chair for the judge and a lawyer at the bottom, looking up. I wanted to be a judge, one to specialize in children issues. Sounds insane, completely nuts, but that's what I wanted, justice. I was obsessed with laws, but also history which also made me look deeper into other subjects. Yet, I was still hooked on the law, convinced I would be able to change someone's life. When I look back, the teacher must have thought I was crazy. That dream of mine was crushed violently when I had to deal with real lawyers, and when I arrived in California. Thank you to insane money maker school, you have to spend millions to get some type of good education to become a great lawyer, or drown yourself in debt for the good major part of your life. Law in America is different from the European one, and when you think of going back to your origins, international is the only option, yet, expensive, and forget about the years you have to spend in a school. Not for me. 

What's your point on the government at the moment?

I don't think you are ready to actually hear my opinion as it may be highly different from many of you! Like to me immigrants, refugees are human beings just like you and me but with a different lifestyle. You don't have bombs destroying your house, or getting killed because you are having a religion. They are usually running away from destroyed lives to better countries who will accept them because they are nice people. But no... Now it's only money, power, being "WHITE" and rich that counts. Let's go back to late 1930's, let's go back to WWII, let's go back to fascism, racism, and sexism. It seems like history is repeating itself, the only good thing that we didn't have back then was all the new technologies that we have now. And yes, technology is nice, but let's be honest, when were political people nice? It will be used for all the wrong reasons! The world is been destroying by our doing when we will stop?

Final question,  kisses or cuddles? 

What a silly question, I'm affectionate so kisses and cuddles. What type of person did you think I was, how can I choose? It's nearly impossible! Kisses are just as enjoyable as cuddles... It's physical touch! Come on! 


I don't think you'll learn much from these little questions, and I didn't want to write novels about them, tried to keep it simple. It makes me realize that I can write about love with more ease than my own self. 

It's Friday, I didn't want another love article to end the week, but something a little more personal. 

~Bella

Let's get together...

Inauguration day... Donald Trump Jr. became president of the USA. The entire world watched from Great Britain to Australia. People from everywhere either crying, trying to realize what's going on, or some are just beyond joyful about the news. Everyone has their opinion on the subject. I know I do, and as an European, it's not that great of a news. It's actually a complete nightmare. The past is the past, we cannot change it but we can learn, sadly, humans tend to not learn much throughout the years, let's be honest, we see it with the last election!

The day after Tump's inauguration, people across the world started marching. Marching you ask, yes marching as in walking throughout streets to protest against what Trump have been saying against women. The mass majority is the women walking for their rights, but also men who happen to agree. Women have fought for their rights, so why is Trump going to just disregard that? The question struck me! No idea, if you have a clue, please tell me! 

When you hear women, you think of a mature girl who is independent, strong, and determined to succeed in whatever she wishes. For me, a woman is a mature person who can be a mother as well as a wife and a business woman. It's a human being who is capable of being kind but stubborn when needed, understandable, compassionate, respectful but not too much that she is overly arrogant! A woman is capable of being herself, disregarding comments that may be thrown her way! 
So when women are once again treated as garbage by men who have women around them, it makes me a little upset, more than usual. I can understand why men would be slightly underestimating women, but having a president who doesn't comprehend the fact that women have fought for centuries about their rights, about EVERYTHING, it makes the country go very low. 

Trump may have qualities, he may be an amazing, but I wouldn't think so at all, not after hearing his speeches, or the way he acts around his beloved wife. Let's look how Obama treated his wife with much more respect than most men would with their wives. He proved us that behind a man there is a woman! Besides the husband there's a wife, supporting him, loving him, being proud of who they became. It doesn't matter if you are married to another man, being homosexual, there's a woman behind them as well, mothers. 
Who had to go throw labor to give you life? Who had to give up hours of beauty sleep to breast feed you? Who had to spend hours cleaning you, change your diapers, change the bedsheets because you had accidents? Who had to deal with sticky underwears? Who taught you how to talk, read, eat properly? Who took the time to listen to you when you were not happy or having issues? Who spent hours in the kitchen, making you healthy food to eat so you do not starve? 
I can go on, I see it every day with my mum, I had to deal with it when I was with my father when they divorced. I had to deal woman chores at a young age, and being a mother is a job, underrated job which isn't recognized by anyone. 
When you hear Trump talk about women in such a manner, it proves that he doesn't care, appreciate his own mother, so how could he appreciate any woman? 

Make America great again? It had to be in a horrible position in order to make it great again. It's being beyond great since Obama took office since he tried to repair the mistake that was done before. Now Trump will just destroy everything that Obama have done for this country. Instead of having his own people under health insurance so they don't die because there's no money to get help, HE WILL LET THEM DIE WITH NO MONEY! Yet, let's make America great again... 

Marching may seem like nothing to a lot, but it shows that we are alive, we are here and we are strong enough to stay where we belong or not more... Many women have fought for countries, for equal rights, and now they want to take them away like they never happened? I don't think so. Women may not be as physically strong than men, but women are determined, stubborn and mentally strong to take down anyone who may treat them like garbage. If we fight together (peaceful, mental fight), we are capable of succeeded! Achieve what we want! 

Let's not forget the strong women who fought for our rights, for us! 

"We have talked long enough in this country about equal rights. We have talked for one hundred years or more. It is time now to write the next chapter, and to write it in the books of law." - Lyndon B. Johnson

~Bella

Living Nightmare...

Election... It's that week!

Can't just avoid talking about it, when so many Americans are protesting against the popular vote, Trump. Can't deny the fact that it is making countries afraid of the consequences of such actions! Sad, but true!
When you look at all the countries reacting to the news of Trump being president, they are either afraid, shocked or completely in denial! The fact that England left America to be independent, to let them choose what's best for the nation, and seeing the result...
The 2016 election proves us that America isn't ready to be an independent country!
How did anyone let this happen?
What are we going to tell our grandkids about the 2016 election?

"Oh, it was 9/11, all over again! A catastrophe! People going insanely shocked and lost!"

This will mark another shameful moment in history! The time a racist, famous, billionaire became president of the United States. Next time, Kim Kardashian will run for the presidency. It proves anyone can run to rule this nation! 

This is one bad thing about this country, anyone can be your boss, even if that person doesn't have any experience in running the type of business. Look at Trump... 
The brainwash that he managed to do during his campaign in beyond explanation, promises that won't be kept, treats, manipulation and let's be honest here, he pretty much destroyed himself while he was public speaking. Putting his own people down is an amazing way to show everyone how much you care for your country!  But that no one will admit it, no one will admit they elected an insane number two Hitlers. 

Politics are in general just a bunch of bullocks, lots of manipulations, corruptions, lies... Indeed, I'm concentrating on Trump at this moment, but that's because it was a shock, it was surprising to see how a racist white rich guy with no politic experience got elected! Clinton isn't clean either, no president was anyways. We are human, we make mistakes, but some presidents made too many of them, too dangerous ones! Clinton at the opposite of Trump doesn't attack people, doesn't act like a dictator! 

Having a difficult election like this... Like 2016 election... It is just a shock for an entire nation, for the world. Everyone was watching, everyone heard, everyone was shocked! A shame for the country! 
What else is America holding back from us all? What will happen next? 
Is everyone actually planning on leaving, fleeing the country, running away from their president? Is anyone going to pay their taxes to make a statement because Trump didn't pay his for 8 years when Obama was in office?

You elected a man who only cares about himself, who only cares about money, fame, glory, power. A man who only wishes to see half of the United State disappear by expulsing everyone. 
I don't think you realized what you just signed up for! You, rich people with gardeners, maids, nannies, underpaid workers... You can say goodbye to them! They won't be here anymore to clean up after yourself. No more hard working Mexicans to do your dirty jobs, the ones you are incapable of doing yourself! These so-called "Americans" are going to be forced to pay extra money for other "American" to do their jobs! The economy is going to crash! 
Let's get back to our textbooks for just a second...

A long, long, time ago, before Europeans came in this new world, " Native Americans" were on this land! These new arrivals, killed, tortured, destroyed everything in their passage, made slaves out of these people. 
Then time moved, England has no more power over "America" over "The United States" ---- This new "Americans" still have slaves, have a civil war, then the KKK, white folks who think they are full "Americans" because of their skin color. Bloody hell, you are all a mix of a lot of different culture, different backgrounds. 
None of you are 100% American unless you have Native American blood in you! 
Yet, you deport people out, destroy families, and now elect a dictator who acts like Hitler? Because you want America great? Alright! 

Let's start with the pipelines going through Native American land.
Let's start stopping racism against colored skin people or the gender. 
Let's start helping out Europe because without them you wouldn't exist! You think you have a history? Look again in your textbooks! The only history you've got starts at European invading the land, to Thanksgiving (you are celebrating the fact that you murdered Native Americans), to 9/11, to now this terrible election. 
Oh, but let's elect Trump as president, let him rule this country, let him scare the entire world! 
This country has disappointed me! No lesson was learned, between the slavery, the KKK, 9/11, Bush as a past president... You only want attention, you got it! You've got it! You've got the fame. You want a medal now? Like a kid after wining a spelling bee contest?

None looked at the consequence of this election, none! 
After all this time in California, I'm actually proud to say I'm European. Indeed, we have our faults, mistakes, we make errors, but we learned not to have a dictator ruling countries!

It's a shame to be American nowadays! I'm sorry, but electing such a man is just disappointing! 
I'm afraid for this country! 

~Bella

Election week...

Traumatic experience! 

On an earlier post, I talked about both political side, and how I disliked political subject in general... Sadly, as I'm writing this post, it is, in fact, the day after the election. Candidates were Clinton and Trump. As you already know,  I wasn't for any of them, but I'm getting nervous on knowing that Trump won and how many supporters he has! 
No, I didn't vote, I ain't an American citizen, yet, and sadly, now it's more for a protection than anything else.

Trump won! Trump became the next president! No, I'm not happy! How can anyone be happy? It's a catastrophe! It's Hitler number 2! How can anyone vote for a man who doesn't care one bit about his own people? Don't you see that manipulation is around, that all his promises will be off the to-do list? 

When you look at all the voters, you'll see and understand why they voted for a dictator! The ignorance is beyond explanations! 

I'm on social medias such as twitter, and EVERYONE is afraid of the result as it isn't as pretty as so many of you declared before the election!

Some tweets go like this :
"To all those US tweeters telling us Brits to "worry about our own country." Well, we left you to take care of yours and look what you did!" 

to 

"At least we will get some insane episodes of South Park because of this"

to

a bunch of people as well as me saying we all have to leave this country! It's a living nightmare! 

Politics should be explained to everyone like we do to kids, maybe people need to review what it is and what politicians do. During the course of the elections, candidates promise things that they will do to their countries. Don't get me wrong, some promises are great to hear, but let's be honest, they usually don't do half of these promises. They make it seem like they will have complete power over the entire country, but in fact, they don't. Liars, manipulators who buy everyone to get their ways!
Presidents aren't at all great! Why giving the right to one person to govern an entire country? Belgium doesn't have a president and the country does well. 

Anyway, short post, I'll write more on Friday after I know more! 

Keep that hope up, or move out the country! Canada is going to be overpopulated soon! The United States isn't at all UNITED!

~Bella