Dating is tough, but getting to know someone at a deeper level is even more difficult! Sometimes, we don't always know what to ask the other person who may be staring right at us, making us speechless...As nuts as it sounds, some people just don't know what to ask in order to know more about a person... On dates, or even if it's just to know a friend, questions may not come up to you all the sudden. I know I've gone through it before, even got blocked by the person who kept watching me. Feeling uncomfortable enough to lose my thoughts.
I thought I would make a list of twenty questions you may ask your date.
- What is the one thing you would change about yourself?
- What would you do if your parents didn't like your partner?
- Have you ever lost someone close to you before?
- What's your ideal weekend?
- Would you follow your partner if they had to move away?
- Do you believe in second chances?
- What's your idea of a perfect vacation?
- Do you have a bucket list? Did you already cross a few things out?
- What is the craziest thing you ever done and would you do it again?
- If a genie granted you three wishes, what would you wish for?
- What's your biggest regret in life?
- If you could go back in time, would you ever go back and change the past?
- Are you close to your family? If not, why?
- Would you still be friend with an ex-girlfriend or ex-wife?
- Do you consider yourself a morning person or a night owl?
- What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
- What is a family tradition that you will give to your kids if you ever have some?
- What do you think is the most important life lesson for someone to learn?
- If you won $1 million, what would you do with it?
- What is your greatest achievement so far?
Questions come up easily if the conversation with the other person is nice enough for you to continue talking to one another. Now, I know how it can be at times, blanks, silence come up. Then, we don't always find the right question to ask to someone in order to know more about them, sometimes the words don't show up. You freeze in place, a lack of communication overcome you, and you don't talk, you don't ask. Finally, fears occurs, making it difficult for everyone to simply talk, ask, afraid to figure something you don't like, afraid of the answer..."Dating" isn't something I'm used to, can't tell you how difficult it can be in front of someone new, and ask questions, getting to know someone, one by one. Easier to hangout with the person, act completely friendly... To me, dating isn't my cup of tea, going on dates seem like a waste of time, you can't ask everything in a date and then judge a person based on what they answered. Then again, you may learn a lot if you take the courage between your hands and ask. It won't kill you!
"There is no stupid question; stupid people don't ask questions."- Olivia
~Bella
~Bella
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